Supporting Your Child's Social Development
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Supporting Your Child's Social Development
- July 24, 2023
- Education Matters
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The Fundamental Approach
Key Point: Listen to your child. Pay attention to what your child is saying and expressing. Understand their interests and desires.
1. Setting Rules and Boundaries
Establish clear guidelines for activities and commitments. Create a balance between freedom and structure.
2.Encouraging New Activities
A. Making Deals
- Listen to your child’s interests (e.g., karate, music)
- Agree to provide necessary resources (equipment, lessons).
- Important: Set a commitment period (e.g., one term, three months).
B. Avoiding Waste
- Prevent quick abandonment of activities
- Example: Buying an expensive instrument and quitting after a few weeks
3. Teaching Commitment
- Challenge children to think through their choices
- Encourage giving activities a “good shot” before quitting
- Help children understand that not everything is 100% fun or easy
5. Balancing Fun and Practice
- Explain that improvement requires effort.
- Use piano practice as an example.
- Not always fun, but necessary for skill development.
- Builds discipline and perseverance.
6. Supporting Various Developments
- Social development
- Physical development
- Creative development
Remember: Ensure children commit to activities for a set period to foster growth and learning.
By following these guidelines, you can effectively support your child’s social development while teaching valuable life skills such as commitment, perseverance, and balanced decision-making.

Dr. Mark Evans
Dr. Mark Evans, a native of Wales, began his education in government schools before attending United World College of the Atlantic at age 16. After earning his International Baccalaureate Diploma, he pursued a BA in Psychology from Oxford University. Throughout his career, he has taught at every level of education—from nursery and primary to secondary, special needs, and university instruction. He holds three master's degrees and a doctorate. His true passion lies in the transformative power of education.